This Is How It Should Be

The wedding whirlwind that began with u/Ldeezy’s Reddit post sparked a lively debate about modern wedding etiquette and practices. From tales of brides demanding specific, pricey attire to charging for bridal shower attendance and setting minimum gift prices, the thread was ablaze with stories showcasing the evolving and sometimes controversial nature of wedding expectations.

We also learned about different cultures where it’s customary to gift money. In the end, if the dream is a lavish wedding, couples must remember it’s their vision and not an obligation for their guests. Consideration and practicality should guide the way so we don’t have to come across similar tales of woe every other weekend.

Weddings Have Come a Long Way

Back in the day, it was tradition for the bride’s family to handle wedding planning expenses. Fast forward to today, and it’s a whole new ball game. Couples are now steering their own wedding ships, splitting costs, or even asking guests to chip in—case in point, our internet-famous bride and her $75-a-plate dinner.

Traditional norms are taking a backseat in this era of personalization and ‘do-it-our-way.’ And thanks to the rising wedding planning costs, many couples are responding to their tightening wallet strings with new and inventive alternatives.

NEXT: Couples have been getting creative with their budget for a while now.

Wedding or Fundraiser? Bride’s $75 Dinner Charge Sparks Heated Debate