Wedding or Fundraiser? Bride’s $75 Dinner Charge Sparks Heated Debate
It All Comes Back to RSVPs
The crux of the matter is the sheer audacity to spring costs on guests after they’ve RSVP’d ‘yes’ to a wedding invitation. RSVPs are the cornerstone of wedding etiquette as they help couples figure out how many guests to expect so they can plan accordingly.
And while technically, it’s possible to bail after answering yes, it’s generally frowned upon. It can cause many headaches for the couple, who’ve probably already counted you in for meals and seating arrangements. However, if something big comes up—like, say, being asked to pay for your meal unexpectedly—it’s understandable why one might reconsider.
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